How to apologize to a friend?

Follow this golden rule

1. Iam sorry for ……..This will shows that ,you understand your mistakes

2.This is wrong because……… This will shows, how you are feeling for that mistake.

3.In the future ,I will……..This will rebuild trust between friends….

4.will you forgive me…..

Don’t use words like,You or your in apology

Use words like I and we this will able to get close to your friend again

Be patience…..Time will change all…

Don’t message/Call your friend continuously Unitill your friend replies . Because your friend may not ready to speak about that situation.

If possible ,try to give some gifts /choco which was your friends favourite.

Don’t send any voice note,Its better to have a conversation face to face this will help your friend to understand how you are feeling for your mistake.Face expression may melt your friend’s heart..Indirectly it will reflects to give forgiveness for your mistake.

Ex:

1.I apologize /Sorry that i had done ____,I feel embarrassed and ashamed by the way what I did.I just wanted to tell you again that I’m sorry, I hope we can be friends again soon.

2.This was wrong because it hurt my friend

3.In the future ,I will not do that.Am assuring that.

4.Will you forgive me ?,my friend.

5.I’m so sorry, again, for hurting you, but I don’t want this to end our friendship. Will you be my best friend again?

I am so sorry for saying those hurtful things that I said to you and I know that that behavior is unacceptable. I don’t want to speak to my friends in that way, especially not my best friend. I hope you will forgive me.”

I know this might be a lot to take in in one day and that the feelings from our argument are still fresh, so please take some time to think and I’ll be here when you’re ready to talk.

I hope you’re doing well! We haven’t spoken in a while but I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately and wanted to see how you’re doing and what you’ve been up to.”

If you have any queries, please comment your queries in comment section.

© Vijethkannan,Backtechinfo

6 Comments Add yours

  1. ilonapulianauskaite says:

    I can agree with you, need to talk and to explain, but sometimes the person dont want to listen what to do it happens?

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    1. Vijethkannan says:

      Good question Ilona, First I want to say this to everyone , before answering.I remeber this quote but I can’t able to recollect where I read. “Sorry works when a mistake is made, but not when the trust is broken.so in life make mistakes but never break a trust,Because forgiving is easy but forgetting and trusting again is sometimes impossible”. If you did mistakes it can be forgive but trust can’t .First think ,what you did to your friend?,why it happens?,Whether this can be avoided?,Don’t blame yourself for any mistakes, everyone can do mistakes it will teach us lesson🌷,If they not ready to listen what your are trying to explain give them some time and give some free space to think, once they ready to speak about that situation they will speak to you and if they want to ask some questions feel free to answer that questions, If they get satisfied they will come in your life again.If not accept your mistakes and move on ❤️,Hope you understand what I mean.

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      1. ilonapulianauskaite says:

        Thank you for explaning💙

        Liked by 1 person

      2. Vijethkannan says:

        My Pleasure🌷🌹

        Like

  2. ilona madam says:

    What if the person is far away and you cant meet? But you were able to hurt each other by phone?

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    1. Vijethkannan says:

      Hi Ilona ,can we have a conversation through a phone Call ,then we to have explain what happens .
      Possibility , because sometimes we will loose our control while speaking to someone but it will not happen all the time.

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